More Than Shy

Understanding Social Anxiety

Social Anxiety 101

It’s an intense fear of being judged or rejected in a social situation accompanied by feelings of worry and distress. You can cure social anxiety by learning to manage how your mind and body reacts to certain triggers.

Social Anxiety Symptoms in Men

It’s natural to feel nervous in social situations, especially if you’re talking in front of a crowd or on a first date. These feelings stem from our evolutionary drive for social connection and finding a mate.

A social anxiety disorder takes this nervousness to the next level. We become hyper-aware of people’s reactions and inaccurately perceive their facial expressions and body language as a rejection or threat towards us. We then develop an intense fear of being judged, criticized, or rejected in social situations.

If you understand your uniqueness and how you’re contributing to the lives of others, you’ll have more confidence in situations that at the moment seem untenable. We can help you move past anxiety and give you the confidence to launch your true persona.

Social Anxiety Symptoms

When men with social anxiety disorder have to be around other people or perform, they tend to feel:

01 Physical

  • Avoid eye contact
  • Mind goes blank or into overdrive
  • Nausea, butterflies
  • Rigid, tense body posture
  • Pounding heart, tight chest
  • Difficulty talking, tight throat

02 Behavioural & Emotional

  • Negative thoughts and beliefs
  • Belief that you’re inadequate
  • Avoid doing things in public
  • Escape feared situations

Load MoreShow Less

Feel. Better.

Feelings don't go away, so why not learn how to manage and resolve them better? It's called emotional intelligence, and it can improve your life immensely.

Watch the video

Treating Social Anxiety Disorder

The good news is, social anxiety symptoms in men are common and with the right treatment, most men recover. To help you manage your social anxiety, we’ll first look for the root of it which might be due to inherited traits, your brain structure, or a learned behaviour. It could also be due to family history, negative experiences, temperament, new work demands, or having a condition or appearance that draws attention. We’ll then use counselling and coaching to diagnose your issue and move forward with a plan of action that you can take with you to launch your life.

7 %

Social Anxiety Disorder affects 15 million adults, or nearly 7% of the U.S. population. It’s as equally common in men and women.

- Anxiety and Depression Association of America

36 %

36% of people with social anxiety disorder report experiencing symptoms for 10 or more years before seeking help.

- Anxiety and Depression Association of America

13 yrs

Thirteen years old is the typical age of onset for social anxiety disorders.

- The Michigan Daily

Taking Action

I just needed a practical way of working through the problem. I didn’t want to be on the couch. I wanted to take action.

Andy, 48

Honest Talk

It’s a refreshing way of looking at myself. I’ve tried counselling before, but this is more honest. More objective. More real.

Kevin, 36

Making Progress

I still have a way to go, but I feel like I understand what’s getting in my way better. I haven’t been able to get that from talking before.

Xander, 32

Learn practical tools to improve your wellbeing and get more out of life.

Request a Callback

Feeling something you're not sure of?

Feelings and emotions are complicated. Let us help you untangle them so you can feel better.